Dear Abby: Parents’ cute idea leaves teacher in stressful situation

DEAR ABBY I am a educator I love my job and I love my students However as I near the end of my th year of teaching there s something I need to get off my chest Related Articles Dear Abby My teenage stepdaughter is queen of the castle Dear Abby I worry that my ex-friend might tell my wife what I noted about her Dear Abby I ve saved up for an exotic dream trip Is it OK to go without my wife Dear Abby After the thrilling kiss I want to send him a message but I m afraid his wife will see it Dear Abby The bartender stated he d give the cash to the bride Was I wrong to involve her mother At the end of every school year plenty of parents ask me to write a personal note to their participant as an inscription in a certain children s book They request this of all of their kids teachers then give the book as a graduation gift It s a cute idea but what it amounts to is a large stack of paperwork at a time of the school year when I m already drowning in paperwork I m writing this to say publicly Please stop Parents I love your kids and I did my best to teach them and make sure they had a wonderful year I tried to instill in them a passion for learning and a love of reading I also helped them to address tricky social situations and move forward as wiser people I am not saying this to pat myself on the back I m doing it to let you know I have already given your kids my all Before you demand that I perform an extra task for you multiply that task by and imagine what that means for me at an extremely stressful and busy time of year If you appreciate what I did for your child please show your appreciation by not laying extra work on me at the end of the school year Thanks Abby ALREADY OVERWHELMED IN NEW YORK DEAR ALREADY OVERWHELMED I m printing your letter to parents however a few of them may miss my column in current times That is why I am suggesting that the answer to your obstacle may be as simple as sending a message IN ADVANCE to these well-meaning parents reminding them that this is a stressful time of year for you and please not to ask DEAR ABBY I have been with a man for years The first inadequate years were wonderful but then he turned to drugs and became a different person I can t get away from him I work two jobs to assistance us He doesn t respect me I have questioned him to leave repeatedly He refuses I leave it at that so as to avoid rocking the boat because he can be a jerk I m ready to pack up and move but everything here is mine What should I do OUT THE DOOR IN THE EAST Related Articles Dear Abby My teenage stepdaughter is queen of the castle Dear Abby I worry that my ex-friend might tell my wife what I disclosed about her Dear Abby I ve saved up for an exotic dream trip Is it OK to go without my wife Dear Abby After the thrilling kiss I want to send him a message but I m afraid his wife will see it Dear Abby The bartender commented he d give the cash to the bride Was I wrong to involve her mother DEAR OUT Schedule an appointment with an attorney to discuss your obstacle You should no longer patronage your drug-addicted abuser because by doing so you have become his enabler If you feel he presents a danger to you or your property file a police document and ask for a restraining order With their help you may eventually be able to pry him out of your home If you are afraid that he will retaliate install a shield system For further suggestions contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline - - - or thehotline org Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren also known as Jeanne Phillips and was founded by her mother Pauline Phillips Contact Dear Abby at www DearAbby com or P O Box Los Angeles CA